I know arguments like this pop up all the time, according to surveys, which no one is willing to claim, one argument between males and females is started every 12 minutes, how many a year figure it out for your self.
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[/caption]The plain cold fact is girls may not be so much as expertly complicated as they are adept at complicating OF situations. But, here is the thing guys, the more we complain about female complication is the more we add TO the complicated situation, I hypothesise this to be true because if you spend a day in a salon, which I have, it is like a battle to see who can come up with the most complaints about men, in other words, if you complain about her she will dig 5 complaints about you, then you’ll have to hire yourself a lawyer to help with your defence.
It is an acknowledged fact that men are the more laid back and simplistic species, females on the other hand when you tally up their social, health and sexual needs you will be using the walls to write on.
Periods, hair, nails, clothes and I daresay SHOES all combine to encompass only ONE part of female complication. But my emphasis in this blog is the complication of the female mind.
Fact – women do not think straightforward like men, they calculate, scheme, fantasise and dictate (ehem, jump to conclusions) what they see, and that’s without asking questions first.
It is in their nature to be complicated, our nature is to make sense of their nature, put it into perspective and act accordingly. In other words, guys, don't complain about girls being complicated, its the reason why they are females and we are males: females are complicated, males are meant to simplify their complications.
One major aspect of this is what I call ‘the two-def statements’ this is basically when a woman says something like “I’m ok,” when she really isn’t, it is basically where most guys shoot themselves in the foot.
Now, I don’t think that this is the case for every female but alot of females do tend to cause drama. The thing is, if a man is level headed and aware of this he can easily sway the situation to his advantage.
Guys here’s a few steps to cutting through the B.S and finding out what they are really saying:
L.I.S.T.E.N!
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[/caption]I shouldn’t really have to explain this but there are, unfortunately, some guys out there who do not understand this concept, in simple terms, this is where you lip stops moving and your ears start working (and yes it takes alot of energy and self discipline to listen, but work on it).
Listening to a female when she is stressed, happy, angry or sad will tell you EVERYTHING you need to know about what she is going through AND what you can do to help. Girls give off signals they are not even aware they are giving off when they are emotional use it to your advantage and stop analysing how loud they are talking!
Play the game YOUR way:
Women love being chased, they love to mess with your head and playing
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[/caption]hard to get, this is all apart of their complications. Women are attracted to men who can cut through their B.S and hold their interest. This is all apart of the game we play called the ‘Battle of the sexes’. You need to learn to stand your ground and not get sucked in, I’ll tell you now, emotionally, women can absolutely batter males and leave you a wreck, I know this, I’ve experienced it once or twice.
As in any battle the army with the high ground has the advantage, this is what you are battling women for, the moral high ground, it is best if she has little complaints about you because if she does, then i’m sorry my friend, you are on your way to a certin assimilation, resistance, in this case, is futile....
It takes a high level of self control and patience to win over a woman. Guys, if you rush it you are bound to fail later on, yes, you might win over her, but she expects you to fail at some point. In order to ensure you can last you need to be slow, patient and you need to MAKE HER WANT YOU, rushing only makes you look desperate. Women are devout subscribers, whether they know or admit it, to the term, “the race is not for the swift but those who can endure to the end.”
If a woman shows, interest in you, don’t be too willing to indulge her, that’s what she wants and if you do that you’ll become her lapdog, if it was the other way around she would play hard to get, I’m advocating that you keep doing what you are doing but keep an eye on her so when you do make your move, she can’t get round you.
If you are showing interest in a woman, she is going to give you a hard time if she values herself. If you aren’t willing to endure, go home and stick to flirting on hotfling.com.
Women want to be valued, the more you value her the more she will value your interest in her. SIMPLE AS THAT! Not rocket science; this is what cutting through the complication is all about. This is what gives you the moral high ground and earns you her respect.
Understand her:
Now I am a natural flirt, it was probably water-boarded into my personality to aid my career as a spy but based on this I’ve had a few run-ins with potential wifeys in the past. This was down to my not understanding how their minds work, now I have a fairly better comprehension, my personality is hardly a problem.
FACT – Just because she is not the jealous type doesn’t mean she won’t mind you flirting.
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[/caption]Women talk in opposites, think of a baby who says ‘No’ when he means ‘Yes’. That’s the kind of thing you are dealing with here, figuring it out will take more energy and mind power than Albert Einstein can muster.
Simply all you have to do is read her body language, but seeing as most guys can’t do that, you’re probably better off purchasing an English-hindi translation dictionary and travelling to France with it.
It is an agreed fact that almost 94% of communication is body language. Females rarely have problems controlling their body language but DO give away tell-tale signs.
One of the simplest things to understand about females is that they want to be listened to.
Many women hold things inside ALOT of things, if as a man you cannot understand this, then buy a little cottage in Dorset, a dog and spend the rest of your days in solitation. With women, patience is a massive virtue to have, take your time, pick up on the small things she does, like playing with her hair, biting her nails these small things can point to hesitation, sadness or even confusion if you take note of these things and figure out the reason behind it you can go a long way to making a girl happy.
So really it is three SIMPLE things that can allow you to cut through the complications: Listen, Play YOUR game and Understand Her.
Simple minds think up simple ideas which create BIG money.
I’m going to hire 5 lawyers now, as I’m expecting various libel suits from angry females, but i’ll just bide my time until they make a mistake.
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